[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoniel.cz\/proc-existuje-puberta\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.adoniel.cz\/proc-existuje-puberta\/","headline":"Pro\u010d existuje puberta?","name":"Pro\u010d existuje puberta?","description":"Kdy\u017e na\u0161e d\u011b\u0165\u00e1tko za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 chodit a hr\u00e1t si, nad\u0161en\u011b s\u00a0n\u00edm stav\u00edme hrady, tan\u010d\u00edme po byt\u011b do padnut\u00ed a \u010dteme dokola st\u00e1le stejn\u00e9 kn\u00ed\u017eky. Pop\u00edj\u00edme k\u00e1vu z\u00a0de\u0161\u0165ov\u00e9 vody a p\u0159ikusujeme kol\u00e1\u010dky upl\u00e1can\u00e9 z\u00a0p\u00edsku. P\u0159i ve\u010dern\u00edm \u00faklidu zvl\u00e1d\u00e1me zu\u0159iv\u00fd k\u0159ik mal\u00e9ho vzteklouna, kter\u00e9mu se nechce ukl\u00edzet, ani se j\u00edt m\u00fdt a sp\u00e1t u\u017e v\u016fbec ne. Z\u00a0post\u00fdlky k\u00a0n\u00e1m","datePublished":"2019-08-16","dateModified":"2023-05-04","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoniel.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.adoniel.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4faace62981be50719be6a25151192978e6d585737a520836dcb98934de3bb45?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4faace62981be50719be6a25151192978e6d585737a520836dcb98934de3bb45?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"adoniel.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoniel.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a353127_w3344_t1567338406.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.adoniel.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a353127_w3344_t1567338406.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.adoniel.cz\/proc-existuje-puberta\/","about":["D\u011bti\r"],"wordCount":753,"articleBody":"Kdy\u017e na\u0161e d\u011b\u0165\u00e1tko za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 chodit a hr\u00e1t si, nad\u0161en\u011b s\u00a0n\u00edm stav\u00edme hrady, tan\u010d\u00edme po byt\u011b do padnut\u00ed a \u010dteme dokola st\u00e1le stejn\u00e9 kn\u00ed\u017eky. Pop\u00edj\u00edme k\u00e1vu z\u00a0de\u0161\u0165ov\u00e9 vody a p\u0159ikusujeme kol\u00e1\u010dky upl\u00e1can\u00e9 z\u00a0p\u00edsku. P\u0159i ve\u010dern\u00edm \u00faklidu zvl\u00e1d\u00e1me zu\u0159iv\u00fd k\u0159ik mal\u00e9ho vzteklouna, kter\u00e9mu se nechce ukl\u00edzet, ani se j\u00edt m\u00fdt a sp\u00e1t u\u017e v\u016fbec ne. Z\u00a0post\u00fdlky k\u00a0n\u00e1m vzt\u00e1hne svoje ru\u010dky a v\u0161echen k\u0159ik je zapomenut. Bla\u017een\u011b si d\u00edtko p\u0159ivineme do n\u00e1ru\u010de s\u00a0pocitem velik\u00e9ho \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed.S\u00a0hrdost\u00ed pak vedeme na\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b do prvn\u00ed t\u0159\u00eddy. Nakoup\u00edme barevn\u00e9 se\u0161ity a desky, i spoustu pastelek. Kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 p\u0159ez\u016fvky a tepl\u00e1kovou soupravu v\u00a0s\u00e1\u010dku s\u00a0disneyovsk\u00fdmi postavi\u010dkami. Po p\u00e1r dnech \u0161koln\u00ed doch\u00e1zky n\u00e1\u0161 prv\u0148\u00e1\u010dek st\u00e1le nenos\u00ed dom\u00e1c\u00ed \u00fakoly. \u00a0Nen\u00e1padn\u011b se tedy na n\u011b zept\u00e1me, a zjist\u00edme, \u017ee na n\u011b p\u0159eci nen\u00ed \u010das. Mus\u00edme nejd\u0159\u00edv spolu nasb\u00edrat ty ka\u0161tany a vyrobit z\u00a0nich zv\u00ed\u0159\u00e1tka, hr\u00e1t si na psa a ko\u010dku a stav\u011bt po cel\u00e9m byt\u011b dome\u010dky a pel\u00ed\u0161ky a rozl\u00e9vat ml\u00e9ko. A na\u010d se u\u010dit \u010d\u00edst? To p\u0159eci d\u011bl\u00e1 maminka. Je to trochu \u00fasm\u011bvn\u00e9 a na\u0161e d\u00edtko tak roztomil\u00e9. L\u00e1skypln\u011b jej p\u0159im\u011bjeme, aby za na\u0161\u00ed asistence \u010detlo, psalo a po\u010d\u00edtalo. N\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fd b\u00fdv\u00e1 i konec \u0161koln\u00edho roku. N\u00e1\u0161 \u017e\u00e1\u010dek p\u0159inese ty kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 ba\u010dk\u016frky cel\u00e9 roztrhan\u00e9, tepl\u00e1\u010dky tak\u00e9. M\u011bl n\u011bjak\u00e9 desky na se\u0161ity? A jak\u00fd po n\u011bm chceme pytl\u00edk na tepl\u00e1ky? \u017d\u00e1dn\u00fd p\u0159eci nem\u00e1. Pak ze zahr\u00e1dky p\u0159inese kyti\u010dku a pom\u016f\u017ee um\u00fdt n\u00e1dob\u00ed. Jak je to na\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b mil\u00e9!S\u00a0bl\u00ed\u017e\u00edc\u00edm se p\u0159echodem na st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kolu p\u0159est\u00e1v\u00e1 m\u00edt z\u00e1jem hr\u00e1t s\u00a0n\u00e1mi hry, cokoli vyr\u00e1b\u011bt nebo se ve\u010der spole\u010dn\u011b d\u00edvat na televizi, zato vzr\u016fst\u00e1 jeho odpor k\u00a0u\u010den\u00ed.Najednou je tady \u010distokrevn\u00fd puber\u0165\u00e1k a roztomil\u00e9 d\u011b\u0165\u00e1tko je definitivn\u011b pry\u010d. Ka\u017ed\u00fd rozhovor s\u00a0n\u00edm se podob\u00e1 v\u00fdslechu, kdy pubert\u00e1ln\u00ed potomek vytrvale opakuje, \u017ee nic nev\u00ed.\u00a0 Nebo naopak hlasit\u011b vykl\u00e1d\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd detail a neust\u00e1le se hlu\u010dn\u011b n\u011b\u010demu sm\u011bje. Kdy\u017e n\u00e1\u0161 st\u0159edo\u0161kol\u00e1k po p\u0159\u00edchodu ze \u0161koly h\u00e1z\u00ed v\u011bcmi a vr\u010d\u00ed, na nic se ho rad\u011bji nept\u00e1me. Mezi dve\u0159mi podstr\u010d\u00edme obl\u00edben\u00e9 j\u00eddlo a ti\u0161e trp\u00edme hluk oz\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00ed se z\u00a0jeho pokoje. Ze v\u0161ech sv\u00fdch zb\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00edch sil se mu sna\u017e\u00edme neust\u00e1le pom\u00e1hat, ale ta pomoc za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 b\u00fdt ne\u017e\u00e1douc\u00ed. Dob\u0159e m\u00edn\u011bn\u00e9 rady jsou odsuzov\u00e1ny, zato se dost\u00e1v\u00e1 \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l v\u00edce rad n\u00e1m. Ohledn\u011b nemo\u017en\u00e9ho obl\u00e9k\u00e1n\u00ed, neochot\u011b pochopit soci\u00e1ln\u00ed s\u00edt\u011b. P\u0159ib\u00fdv\u00e1 h\u00e1dek o nutnosti u\u010den\u00ed, pot\u0159eb\u011b dom\u00e1c\u00edch prac\u00ed, v\u00fd\u0161i kapesn\u00e9ho a odjezdech na v\u00edkendy k\u00a0nezn\u00e1m\u00fdm kamar\u00e1d\u016fm. Trp\u00edme pak v\u00fd\u010ditkami sv\u011bdom\u00ed, kdy\u017e n\u00e1\u0161 pubert\u00e1ln\u00ed potomek odjede na v\u00edkend k\u00a0tat\u00ednkovi a my si oddechneme. Najednou n\u00e1m za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 doch\u00e1zet smysl puberty. Je nutn\u00e1 proto, abychom se my, jako rodi\u010de, dok\u00e1zali odpoutat od d\u011bt\u00ed a nechali je j\u00edt svou vlastn\u00ed cestou. Nezb\u00fdv\u00e1 n\u00e1m nic jin\u00e9ho, ne\u017e p\u0159ekonat sami sebe, dop\u0159\u00e1t d\u011btem volnost a pevn\u011b v\u011b\u0159it tomu, \u017ee z\u00e1klad maj\u00ed dobr\u00fd. Vedli jsme je p\u0159eci ke slu\u0161n\u00e9mu chov\u00e1n\u00ed, pracovitosti a u\u010dili je, \u017ee vzd\u011bl\u00e1n\u00ed je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9. N\u011bkde to v\u00a0nich jist\u011b je. A tak\u00e9 \u017ee ano. Po n\u00e1stupu na vysokou \u0161kolu znovu za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed doma pom\u00e1hat a komunikovat. A ob\u010das si i pro na\u0161i dob\u0159e m\u00edn\u011bnou radu a pomoc p\u0159ijdou. A na V\u00e1noce s\u00a0n\u00e1mi zase pe\u010de pern\u00edkovou chalupu a d\u00edv\u00e1 se na poh\u00e1dky.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.1\/5 - (7 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Pro\u010d existuje puberta?","item":"https:\/\/www.adoniel.cz\/proc-existuje-puberta\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]